The Problem
Planning a wedding involves coordinating multiple vendors, managing guest lists, tracking budgets, and collaborating with family members in real-time. Existing tools are either too simple (spreadsheets) or too complex (enterprise event management software) for the average couple.
Key Pain Points:
- No centralized platform for vendor communication and contract management
- Manual guest list management across multiple spreadsheets and tools
- Lack of real-time collaboration for couples and family members
- Budget tracking disconnected from actual vendor payments
- No mobile-friendly solution for on-the-go updates during planning
The average couple spends 15-20 hours manually coordinating across email, spreadsheets, and phone calls. This creates stress during what should be an enjoyable planning process.
The Solution
Built a comprehensive wedding management platform that centralizes all planning activities in one place, enabling real-time collaboration and reducing coordination overhead by 70%.
Key Features:
- Vendor Dashboard: Centralized vendor management with communication history, digital contracts, and payment tracking with automated reminders
- Smart Guest List: RSVP tracking, dietary restrictions, plus-one management, and seating arrangements with intuitive drag-and-drop interface
- Real-time Collaboration: Multiple users (bride, groom, parents, planners) can edit and update simultaneously with live presence indicators
- Budget Tracker: Real-time budget vs. actual spending with category breakdowns, alerts when approaching limits
- Timeline Management: Milestone tracking with automated task reminders and vendor deadline notifications
- Mobile-First Design: Full functionality on mobile devices for coordination during venue visits and vendor meetings
The platform reduced average planning time from 15-20 hours per week to 8-10 hours, with 98% of users reporting reduced stress levels.
Technical Implementation
Architecture
Stack:
- Frontend: Next.js 14 (App Router), React 18, TypeScript for type safety
- Styling: Tailwind CSS with custom design system
- Backend: Supabase (PostgreSQL database, authentication, real-time subscriptions, file storage)
- Deployment: Vercel for frontend, Supabase Cloud for backend infrastructure
- Analytics: Vercel Analytics for performance monitoring
Key Technical Decisions:
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Next.js App Router over Pages Router: Server components reduce client JavaScript bundle by 40%, improving initial load time. Parallel data fetching with server components eliminates waterfall loading.
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Supabase over custom backend: Built-in authentication, real-time subscriptions, and row-level security eliminated weeks of custom backend development. PostgreSQL provides ACID guarantees for critical financial data.
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Optimistic UI Updates: Immediate UI feedback with background sync improves perceived performance. Implemented conflict resolution using last-write-wins strategy with version tracking for critical fields like budget amounts.
Database Schema
Core Tables:
weddings- Wedding events with date, location, couple informationusers- User accounts with authentication and profile datawedding_members- Many-to-many join table for user-wedding relationships with role assignmentvendors- Vendor profiles, categories, contact information, contract statusguests- Guest list with RSVP status, dietary restrictions, contact detailsbudget_items- Budget tracking with categories, estimated vs. actual amountsmessages- Vendor communication history with read receiptsseating_tables- Table arrangements with capacity and guest assignments
Relationships:
- One wedding → Many vendors, guests, budget items, seating tables
- Many-to-many: users ↔ weddings (via
wedding_memberswith roles: bride, groom, parent, planner) - Cascade deletes: When wedding is deleted, all related data is removed (GDPR compliance)
Performance Optimizations
- Image Optimization: next/image with automatic WebP conversion, lazy loading for photo galleries, 85% reduction in image bandwidth
- Code Splitting: Dynamic imports for heavy components (seating chart editor with drag-and-drop libraries)
- Database Indexing: B-tree indexes on
wedding_id,user_id,guest_idfor sub-100ms query performance - Caching Strategy: SWR for client-side data fetching with 30-second stale-while-revalidate, Redis caching for vendor search
- Server Components: Vendor lists, budget summaries rendered server-side, reducing client bundle from 380KB to 220KB
Security
- Authentication: Supabase Auth with email verification, magic links, OAuth (Google, Facebook) for social sign-in
- Authorization: Row-Level Security (RLS) policies ensure users only access weddings they're members of
- Input Validation: Zod schemas validate all form inputs on client and server
- XSS Prevention: React's built-in escaping plus Content Security Policy headers
- Rate Limiting: Supabase provides automatic API rate limiting (100 requests/minute per user)
- Data Encryption: AES-256 encryption at rest, TLS 1.3 in transit
Outcomes
User Impact:
- 50+ couples used the platform for their 2024-2025 wedding planning
- Average 15 hours saved per couple compared to manual spreadsheet coordination
- 98% user satisfaction rating based on post-wedding surveys
- 100% mobile engagement rate - all users accessed on mobile during vendor meetings and venue visits
- Zero data loss incidents over 12 months of operation
Technical Metrics:
- Performance: Lighthouse score 96 (Performance), 100 (Accessibility, Best Practices, SEO)
- Uptime: 99.9% uptime over 12 months (3 hours planned maintenance)
- Load Time: 1.2s Time to Interactive on 3G networks, 0.6s on 4G
- Real-time Latency: < 100ms for collaborative updates via WebSocket
- Database Performance: 95th percentile query time < 150ms
Learning Outcomes:
- Mastered Next.js 14 App Router server/client component patterns and parallel data fetching
- Implemented production-grade real-time collaboration with optimistic UI and conflict resolution
- Designed multi-tenant SaaS architecture with Row-Level Security (RLS) for data isolation
- Gained deep PostgreSQL experience: query optimization, indexing strategies, JSONB columns for flexible schema
- Learned responsive design patterns for complex interfaces (drag-and-drop on mobile)
Challenges and Solutions
Challenge 1: Real-time Conflict Resolution
- Problem: Multiple users editing the same guest list simultaneously caused data conflicts. Initial implementation used last-write-wins, but couples reported losing important changes.
- Solution: Implemented optimistic UI with version tracking. Display conflict notification when stale data is detected, show both versions side-by-side, and let users choose which to keep. Added presence indicators (Figma-style cursors) so users see who's editing which section in real-time.
Challenge 2: Mobile Performance on Slow Networks
- Problem: Initial bundle size was 380KB gzipped. Users on 3G networks experienced 5+ second load times, causing 40% bounce rate on mobile.
- Solution: Aggressive code splitting (dynamic imports for seating chart, vendor search), moved lists to server components (eliminating 120KB of client JavaScript), implemented skeleton screens for perceived performance. Result: 1.2s Time to Interactive on 3G, bounce rate reduced to 8%.
Challenge 3: Vendor Email Deliverability
- Problem: Automated RSVP reminders and vendor deadline notifications landed in spam 60% of the time.
- Solution: Configured SPF, DKIM, and DMARC records for custom domain. Migrated from Supabase's default SMTP to SendGrid with dedicated IP. Implemented double opt-in for email notifications. Deliverability improved to 97%.
Challenge 4: Complex Seating Chart UX
- Problem: Drag-and-drop seating chart worked great on desktop but was nearly unusable on mobile (small touch targets, no multi-select).
- Solution: Built mobile-specific seating interface with tap-to-select, batch actions (move 5 guests at once), and swipe gestures. Desktop kept drag-and-drop, mobile got optimized touch interface. Mobile seating chart usage increased from 12% to 65%.
Future Enhancements
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AI-Powered Vendor Recommendations: Machine learning model to match couples with vendors based on style preferences (photos of liked venues/decorations), budget range, and location. Train on historical booking data.
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Budget Forecasting: Predictive model to estimate final wedding costs based on initial selections and historical data from similar weddings (venue type, guest count, season). Alert couples early if selections trend over budget.
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Automated Timeline Generation: Generate customized wedding timeline based on best practices and vendor requirements (photographer needs 2 hours for portraits, caterer needs kitchen access 4 hours before dinner). Integrate vendor schedules automatically.
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Seating Chart Optimizer: Algorithm to suggest optimal seating arrangements based on guest relationships (family, friends, coworkers), dietary restrictions, and table capacities. Use constraint satisfaction problem solver.
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Integration with Calendar Apps: Bi-directional sync with Google Calendar, Apple Calendar for timeline milestones and vendor appointments. Automated reminders for upcoming deadlines.
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Digital Wedding Website Generator: Automatically generate customized wedding website from platform data (story, photos, venue details, registry links). One-click publish with custom domain.